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What is the motivation of a narcissist behind breadcrumbing?
Narcissists are takers not givers and if they do give it is to gain something back for themselves. They give you breadcrumbs to keep ...
Should one expose a narcissistic professional with a negative review so others are protected?
Or is it better to move on with your life where they no longer have control over you? Why not do both if you feel that they are not...
Why do narcissists lose their teeth? My ex has only 5 teeth now
I will make this response short because it is not unlike other similar questions I have answered. I do wonder if this personality has ...
For narcs who make a lot of money monthly, is it common for them to limit the amount
to their family for basic needs? Limiting finances is a regular pattern of the narcissist. It feeds their need for power and control. It...
Do narcissists often create harems and triangulations at a workplace?
In my experience as a systemic psychotherapist I have worked with victims of organisational bullying. I also have worked as a leadership...
Should narcissists be allowed to hold jobs that entitle them to have power over others,
such as teachers, psychologists, doctors, etc.? From personal and professional experience I do not think unhealthy narcissts should be...


Why are narcissists unhygienic and why do they sleep or drink alcohol to excess?
Gosh there are a number of questions here. Quite the contrary most narcissists are careful about their hygiene and how they appear. I do...
Is it common for narcissists to become doctors or surgeons?
If yes, why do they choose this career and in what ways does it benefit their narcissistic needs? Though I acknowledge that most medical...
left me because I am selfish and toxic-So do they give you a reason or not?
In my experience through my work with victims of narcissistic abuse you did get a reason, the typical reason they give for leaving. The...
Why is it that most bosses are narcissists?
I have noticed in my work as a systemic psychotherapist and training consultant that a large number of successful entrepreneurs or ...


NEURODIVERGENCY
Do Helping Professionals and Educationalists (including parents) understand the prevalence of undiagnosed ADHD, ASPERGERS, ASD and its ...

NEW - Are we therapists at risk of working with clients only from an emotional perspective?
Would it be helpful to our clients if we were more aware of the possible need for early medical or neurological intervention? Could we as...

NEW - Does co-dependency or unhealthy narcissism affect the healthy functioning of your organisation
Is Dysfunction the New Norm Are many organisations dysfunctional? Are they run by executives and employees who are replicating...


#7: Ending the Co-dependent / Narcissistic ‘dance’
Through this series of ‘thought snippets’, I am hoping to bring the issue of co-dependency centre stage with caring professionals. By...


#6: Surviving the Co-dependent / Narcissistic relationship
Through this series of ‘thought snippets’, I am hoping to bring the issue of co-dependency centre stage with caring professionals. By...


#5: Understanding the Co-dependent and Narcissistic ‘dance’
Previous ‘‘thought snippets’ looked at some client behaviours which caring professionals are dealing with everyday in their practice....


#4: How do you treat Co-Dependency when it has become an addiction?
The previous ‘‘thought snippets’ in this series suggests that typical client behaviours are highlighting the underlying condition of ...


#3: What happens when Co-Dependency becomes an addiction?
The previous ‘‘thought snippets’ in this series suggests that typical client behaviours are highlighting the underlying condition of ...


#2: How does Co-Dependency typically manifest itself in the lives of our clients?
The previous ‘‘thought snippet’’ suggest that the pervasiveness of co-dependency as an issue in dysfunctional relationships is not...


#1: Keeping on the watch for Co-Dependency
So what’s going on with the client who cannot stay focussed on themself in the session but keeps referring to, or talking about, a...
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