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left me because I am selfish and toxic-So do they give you a reason or not?

In my experience through my work with victims of narcissistic abuse you did get a reason, the typical reason they give for leaving. The narcissist will own nothing of their behaviour. Instead they always do give a reason for leaving in the form of blame.

They up their blaming and gaslighting of their victim as they leave to the point that their victim becomes further destabilized and confused and are literally emotionally collapsed. They blame because they can own nothing. The great news is the victim can recover and must learn to identify the red flags that were apparent early in the relationship but ignored if they are not to find themselves in a similar relationship a second, third, or forth time.

For more information about the subjects covered in this blog, contact Margaret Parkes - phone: 086 832 0422 email:

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