What happens when Yu have a total mental breakdownas a wife to a narcissist while still
living together? I was only discussing this with a client yesterday. Very often those living with a narcissist are the ones who end up...
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What is the difference between a covert narc and codependency?
A codependent and a narcissist both control, however with different outcomes in mind. The narcissist controls to gain power and ...
Is it better for a child to be raised without a narcissist parent,
if possible, by only one parent who is not narcissist? Yes from my experience in my work is causes less confusion for the child and...
How do I manage a narcissist taking over a group?
You can try and manage yourself not the narcissist. Say how you feel but do not go head to head cognitively. That is their strength. You...
I never understood how a narcissistic parent will desire their child to become codependent,
or mirror and adapt their personality disorder until I discovered I made a child with one. How do you coparent with someone who will...
How do I deal with a jealous family member that is a narcissist that wants me to look bad to other
people because that's the only way she can feel better? I am wondering why knowing that this person is toxic to be with, do you spend...
Do narcissist kids gaslight their parents?
Yes some narcissistic kids do gaslight their parents to the point of emotional destabilisation thus causing doubt and confusion in their...
What are common things that will happen when you have gone no contact
with a narcissistic family members or child? Firstly expect them to respond with surprise anger and disgust because they no longer have...
How do I decide to stay or go while pregnant with a narcissist?
(I’m 24 weeks along, living in a different province since Dec. 1st, trying to distance myself but he insists on being with me once baby...
Why is it so hard to convince yourself to get away from a narcissistic?
Firstly I find in my work that the person who is being abused is not always aware that abuse is happening due to their past history and ...
Do narcissistic mothers have a favorite child?
I find in my work that yes narcissistic mothers and fathers can have a favourite child. This type of parent is a self feeder so they ...
Do narcissists compete with their own children for attention?
Yes, in my work I have found that both male and female narcissists can compete with their own children. Their need to be the centre of ...
Is there any correlation or crossover between narcissism and ADHD?
I feel that the behaviours have similarities and I am worried that I may have narcissistic traits. In my work I find there are...
What is the practical way to deal with a man who is absolutely conniving,
an abuser, a pathological liar, and a malignant narcissist/psychopath? There is no reasoning with such a person. Cut off all contact ...
What advice do you have for the mothers of a narcissistic grown son?
Boundaries, Boundaries, Boundaries. Stay very firm about your expectations of their behaviour moving forward. I.e. Do you want him to ...
How do you un-narc your child? Has anyone been successful at doing it?
I have worked with this. It is complex. I wonder is there some role model in their lives they are copying. Or could they also can be in ...
Is it possible that a covert narcissist uses his teen daughter to triangulate?
Yes he can cause triangulation to happen either between the daughter and her siblings or between the daughter and his wife/her mum for...
What advice would you give to a child who is the scapegoat for a narcissistic parent?
Knowledge is the key. I wish I had understood and could put a name on the dynamics of narcissism growing up as a kid. I was lost and...
Living with Adult ADHD
In my view there is no difference if the person with ADHD is educated in a way that suits their brain which helps them to thrive from a...
What hurts a narcissist more than indifference?
Yes indifference hurts and angers the narcissist because it shows them that they no longer have power or control over you. However in my...
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