How do you become less sensitive to being wrong and taking criticism after being raised
in the shadow of a narcissist parent's know-it-all-ISM - where they were "always right" and I was "always wrong"? It is hard to not feel...
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Is it a good idea to go to a psychologist with a narcissist?
What is the purpose of the visit, is it to work on the relationship? Because relationships are co-constructed this would also require...
How do Narcissists and toxic parents raise their children?
In a non toxic and non-narcissistic family the needs are centered on the children whereas in in a toxic/dysfunctional family the needs...
What is a "dirty secret" to a narcissist?
The malignant narcissist can abuse financially, sexually, emotionally, or physically. This can cause them to engage in abuse they would...
Lately, my dad has been punching holes in the walls of our house.
My mom wants to get the walls fixed, but we need an excuse other than "Our dad punched the walls.” What can be some good excuse? So you...
How do I become immune to the tactics of my narcissistic family and focus on my career?
Detachment and in some instances no contact is essential if you are not being heard, given choice, being respected or if you are being ...
How do we manage a generation of narcissists?
First we need to be aware that sadly they do exist and they present with different levels of malignancy and destructiveness. This...
I’m being bullied by a narcissist boss. What can I do?
I would encourage you to leave before you become totally destabalised. They do not change. They will be surrounded by their flying...
Why do most of the bloggers make narcissistic people out to be only men?
I was married to a woman that could define narcissistic to the textbook definition. In my work with survivors of narcissistic abuse I...
I’m being bullied by a narcissist boss. What can I do?
I would encourage you to leave before you become totally destabalised. They do not change. They will be surrounded by their flying...
As a non-narcissist with codependencies, I also have a very devaluing voice in my head.
I do not have a grandiose voice. Is this normal? Yes I understand this and it's normal for many who present for therapy. It is something...
Do narcissists usually have behavioral problems in school
when younger to the point of needing to be home schooled? Interesting question because I have wondered about this myself and have...
If you escape a group of narcs, do you give off a fresh scent that other narcs pool too?
Yes if you have not worked therapeutically on your vulnerability that attracted you to the first narcissistic group or them to you.....
Are narcissists typically wealthy individuals, or are they lower class?
My experience through my work is that many are typically wealthy rather than poor. Their lack of conscience and their impulsiveness can ...
What happens when the narcissist loses their job, family, house, and money and you are the only
supply that could save them but you have discarded them and have a protective order against them? You can never save him. Your thinking...
How come narcissists have taken control of the world?
I am not sure they have quite taken over the world but there are many who seek power and control that's for sure. This has been the...
How come narcissists have taken control of the world?
I am not sure they have quite taken over the world but there are many who seek power and control that's for sure. This has been the...
Why and how do Narcissists control our moods?
Narcissists feed on power and control so bringing down your mood provides this fuel for them. They also have chronic low self esteem so ...
Do narcissists have an unusually high sixth sense?
What appears to be a sixth sense in the narcissist is just observations on their part and information you have provided unconsciously....
Is it worth it to pay a psychologist/psychiatrist to figure out if my mother is a narcissist?
You ask is it worth investigating if your mother is a narcissist. It has been my experience in my client work that yes it is worth it for...
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